Unconditional Parenting
Moving from Rewards and Punishments to Love and Reason.

Coddled Kids, Helicopter Parents, and Other Phony Crises.
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Kohn is the clearest critic of rewards and punishment, and worth reading for that argument.
We have not written the article that goes with this one yet. It is here because parents asked, and because it fits the practices in this phase.
Moving from Rewards and Punishments to Love and Reason.
Seven Building Blocks for Developing Capable Young People.
An A-to-Z reference of everyday parenting problems with Positive Discipline answers for each.
Nurturing Cooperation, Respect, and Joy in Your Single-Parent Family.